Saying No to Bullies!

Bullying is an underrated and enduring problem in schools today. The effects of bullying can last a lifetime. At Francis Case we have a zero tolerance policy against bullying. It is our firm belief and duty to provide a safe environment for our students. We believe that by standing together against bullying we can make a significant difference in our students' lives and their outlook about school. We believe that if students know how to deal with bullies and students know bullying is not tolerated they can focus more attention on learning rather than worrying about how to stay safe.

What can children do to stop bullies?

Make friends. Hang out with friends. Bullies tend to pick on kids that are alone.

If you know someone that doesn't like you stay away from them.

Ignore the bully and walk away. That will take away the bully's power that they think they have over you. The bully wants you to respond but don't, just walk away.

Stop and Think. Talk to the bully and tell him how you feel and what you want.

Don't act scared. Believe in yourself.

Tell an adult. Telling is not tattling. Talk to a teacher. If you are scared, then take along a friend. Tell your teacher when the bully is not around.

Don't join in. Don't call other kids names or pick on them. Bullies try to get other kids to join them.

Be a friend to the kid being bullied. Ask them to tell a grown-up. Go with them if they are scared.

Is Your Child Being Bullied?

Parents should watch for warning signs which include:

Appears to be fearful about attending school or riding the bus.

Has a poor appetite, stomachaches, and headaches especially before school.

Has problems sleeping.

Loses interest in school and shows a decline in academic performance.

Appears anxious, distressed, unhappy, depressed or tearful when they come home after school. Or shows unexpected mood shifts, or sudden outbursts of temper.

What Can Parents Do?

Encourage your child to share their problems with you. Realize that your child may be embarrassed, ashamed, and fearful, so you may have to ask them directly. Listen attentively and reassure them that they will not have to face the problem alone.

Praise your child for their accomplishments and differences. A confident child is less likely to be picked on by bullies.

Help your child make friends. Arrange play time with other kids and encourage your child to join groups, clubs, or take lessons.

Talk to your child about strategies for dealing with a bully. Practice scenarios with your child, this can help them build their confidence.

Maintain contact with Francis Case. Let us know of the situation. We care and will help your child solve their bullying problem. Your child's happiness is important to us!

Additional Help and Resources on Bullies:

Bully Online

Bully Beware

Stamp Out Bullying

Health and Fitness

I mproving Your Child's Reading Ability

Helping your Child
with Math

Six Pillars of Character

Turn the TV Off

Summer
Fun

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